If you're seeking knowledge to break into another world and become successful, what are the ways you will try to do so? People suggest a long list of things for it. But the best way to start is by surrounding yourself with successful people. There is no such a big theory behind this but a really small thing to understand. Being the smartest person in the house is surely nice to feed the ego and feel superior. But that doesn’t help you, it just limits your potential for growth.
With those you spend most of the time will have a huge influence on your mind and behavior. This makes you view the world from their perspective too. Our brain has a tendency of copying things.
– We copy postures
– We copy gestures
– We copy speech patterns
– We copy habits
– We copy personal philosophy
It is often said that “ the quality of a person's life is most often a direct reflection of their peer group. ”What we consider our outlook, our self-image is likely to be a conglomerate of your parents’, your siblings’, your friends', and with all those who are around you. Our brain loves generalization that makes you automatically absorb their belief system.
WHY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE?
Have you ever walked into an area filled with vibrant, bubbly, and smiley people? This would have surely made you happy and instantly felt their positivity. Similarly when you are surrounded by a group of negative, unhappy, and fed-up people . you” ll find that other people’s emotions will abrade on you and have an impact on the way you’re feeling.
The most successful people are those that have a cheerful, healthy, and positive approach to life. Living with such people will make you inspired by them. If you’re surrounded by people that you constantly end up rolling your eyes at, you’ll have no desire to grow. You’ll presumably end up sinking into a touch of a slump. This makes you get a flat line in your results.
Their company makes your brain reconfigure the views and concepts. The more you get exposed to them, the more it becomes easier to build your confidence. It indeed increases your pool of knowledge.
HOW THIS WHOLE PROCESS WORKS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE?
If we surround ourselves with successful, forward-looking people, who have a positive approach, who focus on producing results. It will make you challenge yourself to be more and do more and move ahead.
Always remember one thing that with whom you spend most of the time is who you eventually become. To reach new heights of success, you need to be with those successful people. It isn’t always that easy, but it's worth it.
The whole process works to your advantage in many ways
It lets you cut off the negativity, their company makes you elevate, Makes you concentrate on the ‘GIVING’ value, not the ‘TAKING’ value. Creates a growth mindset.
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